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Do you like my profile my dear? So how sexy are u in person,like big gurls like you. I rep Harlem at th street by 8th av. So SexyCeCe what are 5 things you seek in a potential mate? I seek wisdom,sexiness,support,spontanious and freakiness in a woman. I enjoy working at Radio City Music Hall for my 8 years,especially meeting my cooworkers over the years.

Ok so when seriously can call you? Might wanna take yiou to a nice lounge and have a few drinks and kick it in Harlem. Reading the messages I received from him and others liked him made me stop and think:. Which would I rather have: A guy who liked me because of my size or a guy who liked me in spite of my size? My low cut tops and curve hugging jeans were appreciated in full at these establishments. At first I thought it was my own insecurities; I told myself that I needed to love my body just like the BBW lovers did. Of course it was fun to feel wanted, to feel sexy, but when the night was over I felt more detached from my body than ever.

I began to realize that fat is what I am, but not who I am. Most of these men were in the fetish zone; attracted to my fat and uninterested in who CeCe was. I had spent my whole life wondering what it felt like to have someone want me for my body like the skinny girls do and when it finally happened, I hated it. I wanted to be more than a huge pair of boobs and a soft belly. I felt invisible and in those moments I longed to be at a big girl party. Looking at my dating history this year, I think I have the answer to my question.

Guys like Kevin and Adrian were great dating experiences that no matter how they ended made me feel like a girl. Not a big girl or a skinny girl, just a girl. These men treated me like I was something to be desired and made efforts to know who I was. That is rather unsettling. It reminded me of a Nigerian scam for some reason. I agree with Kristin that you should be with someone who wants to be with you for the whole package — personality, appearance, quirks, etc. I am so glad you wrote this! I am the exact same way. I ed one of the niche sites I hate niche sites by the way.

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And I received messages from one of two kinds of guys. The kind that wanted to date me just because I am a thicker girl or the kind that have no self esteem and think because I am a bigger girl that clearly I will date them. Either way it was annoying. I just want to be treated like a woman and I want a guy to adore me for me. And personally a guy that dates a woman because she is big is just as annoying as a guy who dates a woman just because she has a hot body.

That was a wonderful post! Anyone who has ever looked at their body and been dissatisfied should read your entry. Hey doll! The personality, the curves, the boobs, the mind — everything. And if that were easy to find we'd all be coupled and blissful long long ago. Hang in there!

You'll find it. I promise. I can so relate to this! I have profiles on a couple mainstream sites and one BBW site. I get quite a bit of attention at the BBW site, but it's rarely the kind I want or from the kind of guys I want to know better. For years I was convinced that the kind of guys I like would never like me because of my size.

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Over time I've become more confident — I carry myself differently and smile more openly with attractive men. Now men I never would have suspected even knew I existed are suddenly smiling, saying hello, or making small talk. Some days I get shy and close off, but others I'm right there with them. It's kind of two steps forward, one step back, but at least I'm moving ahead. And I finally understand that confident, attractive people are attracted to confident, attractive people! I love your blog.

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My husband had never dated a big girl before me. The sword cuts both ways. I assume naturally since he was interested in me that he had dated big girls before but I was wrong. We've been married for 2 years, dated for only a year, before him I ed a few sites, I was never really successful on them, Men for some reason think that big girls have low standards.

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I would def. I like my curves to be felt on too every once in awhile but, not ALL the time and thats all they wanted to do! In all honesty that talk really help me a bit, I'm starting to come out my shell more and more everyday.

I'm dating a guy who just ended a relationship with a girl who is 5'2" and lbs. I'm 5'8" and, uh, not lbs. I definitely definitely prefer guys who date the spectrum. The really see the value in individual women and can appreciate them in a way others cannot.

I've had experience with "chubby-chasers" and, like you, felt violated and like the object of a fetish. I would never date someone who wasn't attracted to something so fundamental to who I've become and how I live my life. By the way, your blog inspired me to get one of my own going.

If you're not too busy I'm at songsoftherubaiyat. Loved the post. I think a "regular guy" is what we're all looking for. I've dated briefly men who liked some "thing" about me, only to end the relationship abruptly when I realized that the "thing" was ALL they liked. Great post!!! I would rather have the right guy, and one who loves me for me.

I had the same experiences when I dated on an online bbw site… sometimes felt so weird! The right guy will not care. I'm not blowing smoke up your arse or mine. I am living proof that the right guy will not care. He will love you for you. In his words, "You're more than just one thing, you're everything. Same goes for any other discriminatory aspect…height, glasses, hair color, breast size, color of our skin…nobody puts YOU in a corner!

I'm SO happy that you wrote this post.

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I've been thinking about this a LOT lately. There was this guy…I'll spare you the details, but let's just say we went a long time between seeing each other, and he was definitely a BBW Admirer. And when we finally saw each other again, it was really sweet at first because he DID make me feel like a girl. We had a lot in common, in terms of like movie taste and books- we had a LOT to talk about when it came to books — but then he started rubbing my stomach instead of say, my shoulders or any other part of my body that might like to get some affection…and then the texting started up and he would always say things like "i really love a big girl" or…some more graphic things about big girls.

Because it's not part of who I am.

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It may be what I look like, but it's not really on my pro's list, if that makes sense. I wanted to be loved for me. I have some guy friends at work — some are gay, some are straight — and I'm not looking to date any of them, but when I go a long time without seeing them, they come up, every one of them, and they hug me tight. It's difficult because I'm such a big girl, but they get their arms all the way around me and they tell me how gorgeous my hair looks that day, and I feel wonderful.

I feel like a girl again. I want to be loved WITH my lumps. I always prefer the regular guy who just happens to find himself attracted to me over the guy who is, ultimately, a fetishist. I want the guy who mentions the color of my eyes and my love of the cartoon Daria before he even considers the shape of my belly.

That guy sounded… gross. But I also have a thing where if someone can't be bothered to spell-check, I assume they can't be bothered to open doors for me, call on time or shower. I realize that assumes a lot over what might be merely a klutzy typist, but half of dating to me involves filtering.

I definitely prefer a guy who likes me in spite of my size. It's no different than me having to look past a not so pretty face to see a great person inside.

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We all have our flaws, we need to find guys who will accept and overlook them. Loneliness is a prey among the need of the heart. That I am so malnourished on wanting affection so bad I go against the grain of who I really am. I hate that the attention of someone who im really not interested in made my night a success! This is like a morality war with myself.

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